The Wounded Healer
“To become a deeper person is the privilege of those who have suffered.” —Oscar Wilde
Wounded Healers gain through their own adversity and suffering the resources to stay authentic even when vulnerable and afraid, enabling them to become a light to others who feel lost and alone. The concept of the Wounded Healer defines my lifetime passion as a professional counselor. The heightened intuition and empathy of a highly sensitive person (HSP) continue to serve me well.
I carried two secret wounds in the first decades of life: the profound trust violation of childhood sexual abuse, plus a personal orientation that was considered in that era both a mental illness and criminal act. While serving in the Navy, I witnessed the profound cruelty of the Vietnam War. During the tragic AIDS epidemic in San Francisco, I supported my community for twenty years as a professional counselor while grieving my own personal losses.
My own spiritual resources have grown over time, a blend of childhood Christianity, Buddhism, Vedanta, Wicca and Shamanism, along with a deeper understanding of the human condition informed by 40 years of successful counseling practice.
It is my sincere hope that within these pages you may find guidance as you continue your journey on the path to true-self and personal empowerment.